I don't really know the difference btw a blog and a forum, so I'll just post on both.  I am looking for some guidance and advice on how to deal w/ a surrogate.  I am the IM and we did the retrieval on Sat and hope to do the transfer on Thurs.  I am so excited on one hand and so nervous on the other.  This surrogate seems to have been lying and is already hard to deal w/.  The fertility clinic has tried to help me, but I thought maybe some "expert" advice would be better.  Has anyone had a surrogate that was difficult to deal with, but then turned out ok in the end?  I don't even know if she's doing the shots.  I am trying so hard to have faith, but honestly this is our last hope.  If she doesn't work out, my husband won't agree to do this again.  Help!!!  How can I appease everyone!