i'm new to this idea of surrogacy.  i had tried to find someone i know who'd be willing to carry baby for me, but unable to do that i found this site.  so where do you start & go from here?

You can look through profiles in the area you are looking for a surrogate on here and message someone if you're interested in them and you can also post on the classifieds.. Welcome, it can be so overwhelming at first I know. Let me know if I can help you in any way!

Firstly, are you interested in GS or TS?  Once you narrow that down, talk to a surrogacy attorney, and then find your surro match!  You will want to know ahead of time what kind of relationship you want with your surromama, before, during and after, and understand the costs associated with having someone carry your baby. You will need to cover all of her expenses. 

Are you trying to do this without an agency? I am from Ohio and I went through a wonderful agency to become a surrogate.

expencive?